Dismantling the Inner Empire

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Today for the day after Christmas I want to write a blog that talks about the Spirituality of Christ. In recent years, the troubling realities of living in the world that has come home to roost on many of us. Being one of the only worlds superpowers what is ours to do? As a country that bases its whole existence on democratic foundations, what is ours to do.When Christ came to us his message was simple, Love and non-violence.

( Democratic foundations are the core principles and structures ensuring rule by the people, including popular sovereignty, individual rights (freedom, justice, equality), rule of law, free & fair elections, checks & balances, and an engaged civil society, all working to create accountable, inclusive governance and protect against tyranny. These foundations rely on active public participation, independent institutions, and transparency to build trust and uphold democracy and have nothing to do with political parties)

 

This disintegration of the world’s foundations today provides us with a profound moral and spiritual decision, just as Jesus talked about for his entire life. The four cornerstones of our internal empire as talked about by many wisdom teachers throughout history are—political, economic, military, and ideological power—which serve to enslave our very spirits and how we look at other communities. These communities can be and are not limited to any color, political persuasion, gender, and so forth. And while the first three cornerstones impose harsh realities on the very bedrock of our personhood, it is the ideological power that is the most insidious, shaping and distorting the minds and spirits of both the outside of us and inside of us What Jesus is talking about in his ministry is about the Roman empire, and using that example how we were to live our life’s. This example of course was not limited to the Roman empire because all world superpowers throughout history have acted like this. Jesus came to us in a time when the Romans happened to be in charge.

This moment in history calls for critical self-reflection. We have been indoctrinated by the very forces that uphold the American Ideal, taught to prioritize profit over people and individualism over interdependence. Such values lead to a disembodiment of God’s love, creating an inner empire in each of us that must be dismantled and rebuilt. Those of us calling ourselves Christians, (and others as well) are called to respond with clarity and love, embodying values that reflect the teachings of Jesus.

The Four Cornerstones of the Inner Empire

The traditional Inner Empire is built upon four cornerstones: supremacy, privilege, hatred, and fear. Each of these elements contributes to the dehumanization of both us and others.

  1. Supremacy: This cornerstone embodies the belief in our inherent superiority over others. It fosters division and alienation, leading us to view others as less than ourselves.
  2. Privilege: This refers to the unearned advantages we often take for granted, which we protect or ignore at the expense of     marginalized communities, see above. Recognizing our privilege is essential for fostering empathy and understanding.
  3. Hatred: Hatred manifests as active hostility toward others or even parts of ourselves. It creates barriers that prevent us from experiencing authentic love and connection and understanding.
  4. Fear: Fear drives us to protect ourselves at all costs. When we fear losing control, status, or safety, we build walls that isolate us from others and from God’s love.

Understanding how these cornerstones corrode our souls is crucial. The question then arises: what can restore our souls?

The Cornerstone of Restoration

In Matthew 21:42, we read, “The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone.” This verse speaks to the transformative power of Jesus, who was a tekton—a builder in the truest sense. As a day laborer, Jesus understood the intricacies of construction, not just of physical structures but of the spiritual and communal foundations we need to thrive.

To rebuild our foundation, we must adopt four new cornerstones: humility, responsibility, compassion, and connection. These practices can help restore our humanity toward ourselves and others, paving the way for a world where, as Pope Francis states, “land, lodging, and labor” are accessible to all.

  1. Humility: This cornerstone allows us to see one another as equals, fostering deep reverence and openness. It reminds us of our shared existence in the vast cosmos, where we are all stardust.
  2. Responsibility: Embracing responsibility means being accountable for our actions and becoming stewards of one another and the land. It encourages us to act with integrity and care.
  3. Compassion: Compassion nurtures empathy, love, and benevolence, enabling us to tap into God’s tenderness for the world. It invites us to extend grace to ourselves and others. Have you ever considered that everyone in the world is doing the best they can with what they know and what they know is not what you understand.
  4. Connection: Perhaps the most vital cornerstone, connection teaches us about radical solidarity and belonging. It reminds us that when one group suffers injustice, we all suffer. Our sacred interconnectedness calls us to action.

A Call to Courage

 

My parents went to see MLK in 1961 at Cobo Hall in Detroit and came home and said, we are moving to the inner city, the real inner city. My brother and I freaked out. What did that mean for our lives, our friends and what we had come to think of as normal. So, in and around June of 1962 we moved to Highland Park just off Woodward on Massachusetts Ave and settled in for a life changing experience. Now it was not going to be all bad I thought as there was a public library and Howard Johnsons at the end of the street where a chocolate milkshake could be had now and then with the right amount of change from bottle collecting. But then reality set in, I Iooked around and saw very few people that looked like me, (white) and was not sure how to act at 10 years of age.

I tried to make friends and was looked at with suspicion and caution which at the time did not understand, because look at me, I am a very nice guy. Then the beatings started because I was told this was not my place to be. And while those beatings were not fair or just, I had a choice to make at those moments, was I going to hate or love. Luckily my parents taught me to see the dignity in each person and separate actions from intent. So, I had a leg up on many others and friends, those years molded my soul to see beyond the veil and embrace all of life.

When we want to dismantle the inner empire, we must have the courage to shake the very foundations of our spiritual world. By examining our entitlement, privilege, and positions of power, we can rediscover our true understanding of self, others, God, and the planet. This process requires vulnerability and a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths.

Creating the world we desire begins with ourselves. We must dismantle the inner empires we have built brick by brick, belief by belief. The empire within must fall so that solidarity, justice, and love can rise.

As we embark on this journey of transformation, let us remember the words of Joanna Arellano-Gonzalez, cofounder and Director of Spiritual & Theological Formation with the Coalition for Spiritual & Public Leadership. Her work emphasizes the importance of spiritually rooted community organizing, reminding us that we are not alone in this endeavor. Together, we can build a more just and loving world.

In conclusion, the call to dismantle the inner empire is not just a personal journey; it is a collective one. By embracing humility, responsibility, compassion, and connection, we can restore our souls and create a society that reflects the values of love and justice. Let us rise to this challenge, for the world we want to see begins within us.

This blog was inspired by the writing of Joanna Arellano-Gonzalez who is a cofounder and the Director of Spiritual & Theological Formation with the Coalition for Spiritual & Public Leadership, a spiritually rooted community organizing coalition in the Chicagoland area. Visit their work at csplaction.org.

Beyond Gifts and Traditions

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As the year draws to a close and the chill of winter settles in, a familiar warmth begins to envelop our hearts and homes. Christmas, a holiday celebrated by millions around the world, invites us to reflect on its deeper meanings beyond the surface-level festivities. Have you ever paused to consider what Christmas truly represents? While its religious and spiritual significance is paramount for many, the holiday has evolved into a rich tapestry of cultural celebrations, each thread woven with themes of goodwill, compassion, and community. If you allow me with this exploration, we will delve into the profound essence of Christmas and ponder how we can transform this season into a meaningful moment in our lives.

At its core, Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ, a figure whose teachings of love, compassion, and forgiveness resonate across cultures and religions. For Christians, this holiday is a time of spiritual reflection, prayer, and connection with the divine. The nativity scene, with its humble beginnings in a stable, serves as a powerful reminder of the beauty found in simplicity and the importance of humility, while reflecting on how Jesus came into the world.

However, Christmas has also transcended its religious roots to become a cultural phenomenon. It is a time when families gather, communities come together, and traditions are passed down through generations. From the twinkling lights that adorn our homes to the carols that fill the air, the holiday season is infused with a sense of joy and togetherness for most people. Yet, amidst the hustle and bustle of shopping, decorating, and planning festive meals, we must ask ourselves: what is the true essence of this celebration?

In a world increasingly dominated by consumerism, it is easy to think the spirit of Christmas is about the act of gift-giving. The pressure to buy the perfect present or to outdo last year’s holiday haul can overshadow the more profound aspects of this season. While gifts can bring joy, they often lack the lasting significance that comes from genuine human connection.

I remember growing up with a real tree and all blue Christmas lights, globes and tinsel decorating that tree. I understand deeply that I was very blessed to grow up with those memories. There were people in the neighborhood that had much less. I will forever thank my parents for reminding me that we were lucky, asking what it meant to me and what about the other people that had less.

This Christmas, what would happen if we shifted our focus from material possessions to the gift of presence. (yes, I know some of you are already) The most meaningful moments often arise from shared experiences—gathering around the dinner table, sharing stories, or simply enjoying each other’s company. The laughter of loved ones, the warmth of a shared meal, and the comfort of familiar traditions create memories that linger long after the holiday season has passed.

This also reminds me of Willie Williams. (permission granted to use his name) Sadly, Willie is no longer with us. Many years ago, when I co-owned Varment Guard, Willie came to work with our company and over time through conversation and observation I came to understand that there were some addictions present and his struggles were often. Willie and I became close over that time. That Christmas I talked with my wife and suggested we invite him for dinner and gifts. I want to make very clear I did not do this because I was trying to save him. He became my friend. For the next 7 years he came to family celebrations, until he could not anymore and I missed him deeply.

Consider the impact of a heartfelt conversation with a friend or a family member you haven’t seen in a while. These moments of connection can be far more valuable than any physical gift. By prioritizing relationships over materialism, we can cultivate a deeper sense of belonging and community, which is at the heart of the Christmas spirit.

Acts of Kindness and Compassion!

Another profound aspect of Christmas is its emphasis on goodwill and compassion. The holiday season serves as a reminder to extend our hearts and hands to those in need. Whether through volunteering at a local shelter, donating to a charity, or simply reaching out to someone who may be feeling lonely, acts of kindness can have a ripple effect that transforms lives.

In many cultures, the act of giving is central to the Christmas celebration. However, it is essential to recognize that giving does not always have to be material. Sometimes, the most impactful gifts are those that come from the heart—offering your time, listening ear, or a helping hand. This season, let us embrace the spirit of giving by seeking out opportunities to uplift others. Remember Willie.

Imagine the joy of a child receiving a warm meal or a family finding comfort in a community that cares. These acts of compassion not only enrich the lives of those we help but also deepen our own sense of purpose and fulfillment. In this way, Christmas becomes a powerful catalyst for change, inspiring us to create a more compassionate world. The point to this paragraph is to think about what happens January 1st.

Traditions play a significant role in shaping our Christmas experience. From decorating the tree to singing carols, these rituals connect us to our past and to one another. However, it is essential to approach these traditions with intention.

As we engage in holiday customs, let us reflect on their significance. What do these traditions mean to us? How do they foster connection and community? By infusing our celebrations with mindfulness, we can transform routine activities into profound expressions of love and gratitude.

For instance, consider the tradition of baking cookies. Instead of viewing it as a chore, we can turn it into a cherished family event, where stories are shared, laughter abounds, and memories are created. Making chocolate chip cookies, sorry that snuck in there. By being present in these moments, we honor the spirit of Christmas and create a legacy of love that can be passed down through generations.

Ultimately, the question remains: how do we make Christmas an important moment in our lives? It begins with a conscious choice to seek meaning in the season. Rather than allowing the holiday to be defined by commercialism and superficiality, we can embrace its deeper significance.

This Christmas, let me challenge you by committing to cultivating a spirit of gratitude. Take time to reflect on the blessings in your life, the people who enrich your journey, and the lessons learned throughout the year. By fostering an attitude of gratitude, we can shift our perspective and find joy in the simple pleasures of the season.

Moreover, let us be open to the transformative power of Christmas. This holiday has the potential to inspire personal growth, healing, and renewal. Whether through acts of kindness, meaningful conversations, or moments of reflection, we can allow the spirit of Christmas to guide us toward a more profound understanding of ourselves and our place in the world.

I would like to encapsulate what is written above, so as we approach this Christmas season, let us remember that it is not merely a date on the calendar but an opportunity for profound connection, compassion, and reflection. By prioritizing relationships, embracing traditions with intention, and seeking meaning in our celebrations, we can transform this holiday into a powerful moment in our lives.

In a world that often feels divided, Christmas serves as a reminder of our shared humanity.It calls us to come together, to uplift one another, and to celebrate the beauty of life. So, as you prepare for the festivities, take a moment to reflect on what Christmas means to you. Let it be a time of love, joy, and profound connection—a season that resonates in your heart long after the decorations are taken down and the last carol has been sung.

Merry Christmas everyone, no matter how you celebrate.