What Our Clients Say

These are recommendations our clients wrote on LinkedIn, reproduced in full and unedited. We have not trimmed them to the flattering sentence, and we did not write them. Several of these people are coaches or clinicians themselves, and two of them had been working with Jim for four years when they wrote.

One theme turns up again and again, in their words rather than ours: Jim does not tell people what to do. If you are looking for someone to hand you the answer, we are not the right fit. If you want someone who will stay with you while you find your own, read on.

“Jim is rigorous and delivers coaching with surgical precision. An expert at his craft, he is empathetic, truly gets to know you on a deep level making his guidance specific and actionable. He won’t spoon feed solutions though. He will make you work through deep self-reflection into your emotional self, to the heart of you as a person, your mission in life and values. This is needed to make lasting change. I recommend Jim not just for leaders but anyone wanting to understand themselves and others.”

Raymond YuSenior Manager, Mechanical Engineering, Intuitive

“When introduced to Jim 4 years ago, I did not realize how invaluable his wisdom and insight would become in my life. Jim leads with a unique blend of humor and humility, showing genuine interest in my growth and well-being. While he might offer thoughtful suggestions and challenge me to see things from a different perspective, Jim is never directive. If you are looking for a safe and supportive place to pursue professional development or personal growth, I highly recommend working Jim Vaive.”

Suzanne JonesPsychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner, Licensed Professional Counselor

“Jim’s coaching is like a master surgeon wielding a scalpel. It is direct and compassionate, focusing only on the issue his client brings to him and filled with tender care. Jim’s presence allowed me to walk away from each session with at least one life-changing nugget that is only possible through deep listening and the confident identity of someone who is living a life well-lived. I highly recommend Jim as a coach for those who are longing to make a meaningful change in their life.”

Andy LydeGenerating expansive spaces for individuals and teams

“Working with Jim for the past four years has been truly life-changing. He never tells you what to do—he patiently guides you to uncover the wisdom you already have within, making every breakthrough truly yours. From career to family to deep spiritual work, he handles every topic with clarity and compassion. Professional, grounded, and always there when needed, Jim helped me move from my lowest point to a life filled with peace, joy, and confidence in the future.”

Amy HinesCoaching client

“I’ve had the opportunity to work with Jim as an EQ Coach, and the experience has been both challenging and deeply impactful on my life. Jim’s approach is direct, thoughtful, and purpose driven — he doesn’t shy away from pushing me mentally while also encouraging spiritual reflection & connection. Jim is great at balancing accountability with insight, helping to guide me towards clarity & alignment with the path meant for me! I highly value the time and insight I gain from each session with Jim.”

Gina HodgsonPCC (ICF), Certified Emotional Intelligence Coach – Assisted Housing Supervisor, City of Dubuque, Iowa

“Jim is such an amazing coach to work with! His wit and humor make you feel at complete ease. His patient and kind willingness to guide and stay with clients throughout the entirety of a session, all the while asking thought-provoking questions, create such a safe and trusting learning environment. I always walk away with something new to ponder or practice after talking with Jim. Thanks for being such a caring and helpful soul, Jim!”

Robyn HoschSenior Accountant

“Working with Jim Vaive has been a powerful growth experience. He sees me in ways others don’t, offering insight, presence, and support that help me gain clarity and expand my awareness. His honesty, vulnerability, and intentional approach make every session meaningful. I’m grateful for this journey and excited to keep learning and growing with him.”

A. Guin, EdD, EQCCHelping people move from surviving to restoring

All of these were written between November 2025 and January 2026, and are published here with each author’s permission.

If you would like to talk about coaching, Jim’s calendar is open: book a conversation, or email jim@spiritofeq.com.

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