Dr. King, “Sincere Ignorance,” and the Work of Becoming Intelligent There’s a moment I keep returning to—quiet, ordinary, and surprisingly revealing. A conversation starts with goodwill. People want fairness. They want safety. They want to be decent. Then the same pattern appears facts arrive without their context, a few details get trimmed, and the outcome […]
Let Me Listen: A Love Letter to Shared Humanity (and What It Asks of Us There’s a particular kind of courage in saying: let me listen. Not “let me fix.” Not “let me respond.” Not even “let me impress you with my empathy.” Just… listen. In a poem by Charles Anthony Silvestri (2022), that invitation […]
Sometimes I am just plain numb. Not in a dramatic, storybook way—no fireworks, no sudden collapse. It’s quieter than that. It feels like driving through fog for days: my hands still move, my calendar still gets filled, my words still come out in the right order. I can answer emails. I can make dinner. I […]
First Comes Justice: The Light That Holds Back the Darkness This is one story I feel strongly about. I will not soon forget the first time I walked through the heavy steel doors of a state prison with Kairos Prison Ministries. The Sally port has a clang when it shuts behind you that feels final, […]
The ache of loneliness is deep and profound for some of us. It shows up in our posture, our energy, and the way we relate to the world. I remember when I went through a painful divorce and the loneliness I felt. I didn’t have self-esteem, and I didn’t know what was next in my […]
I’m starting today with a simple promise: to take the ancient tools people have used for millennia and translate them into everyday skills—what I call the seven pillars of spiritual emotional intelligence. This isn’t theory; it’s a practical way to blend inner awareness and soulful purpose with the concrete abilities we use to navigate relationships […]
Can I be heretical for a moment? I want to talk about worship—not as doctrine but as human behavior. When we use words like “worship,” “blessed,” or “devotion,” we often assume everyone shares the same map for those terms. But what if we treated those words as claims that require context and interrogation the way […]
There are moments when a single idea — compassion made practical — can change a life and, eventually, a community. That is the group I have worked alongside for the last few years. Lynette and I have served on the board and in the field, and from firsthand experience we know what this work means […]
My business partner’s offhand metaphor about the United States not engaging in a nationwide football game—where there are winners and losers—stayed with me. At first, it sounded like a crazy joke, the kind people make to underline how competitive and spectacle-driven our society has become. But on my reflection, that “football” image is more instructive […]
“Look well to the growing edge. All around us worlds are dying and new worlds are being born; all around us life is dying and life is being born. The fruit ripens on the tree, the roots are silently at work in the darkness of the earth against a time when there shall be new […]
