Lynette shared that I needed to read some of John Rodels stuff the other day as he wrote a poem about the brain divorcing its heart. I could not help myself and this reflection flowed from that moment. She was right I needed to read it and so do you! His Facebook link is below. […]
I was doing an interview about “love” with my friend Joanna B., (check out herinstagram here @_lvmvmnt) who is starting an outreach mission about love in our world, and it got me thinking about love and what it means. Love is not a single feeling; it is a landscape with bright plains and shadowed valleys, […]
I have been thinking a lot about our human existence and the quiet ways many of us feel cut off from life. These aren’t dramatic breaks — not the kind a single event can explain — but slow separations: a tightening around the chest when someone smiles at us and we don’t know how to […]
Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter—four words that map to the weather outside, but also to the arc of a human life. About twenty years ago I developed a simple process to explain the changing seasons of our lives, and since then I’ve used it with people at many mile markers: teenagers, young professionals, midlife leaders, retirees. […]
When you hear “soft skills do you automatically think “soft results”? Too many leaders still file emotional intelligence (EQ) and spiritual emotional intelligence (SEQ) under the “nice-to-have” column—pleasant, but peripheral. That mindset is a costly mistake. In a world driven by speed, complexity, and automation, EQ and SEQ are not optional extras; they are strategic […]
Good morning. I’m sorry I’ve been quiet for the past two months — I meant to be here, typing away, sharing thoughts and stories the way I usually do. But life had other plans. I went in for a routine medical test and, in one of those cruel ironies, my pancreas got mad. If you’re […]
I have had more than a few people ask me if I do spiritual direction (I do) and what is it if I do. So here is a blog to talk about just that. In the quiet moments of our lives, when the noise of the world fades away, we often find ourselves yearning for […]
Reflecting on my journey, I often liken life to a river—constantly flowing, sometimes calm, other times turbulent. This metaphor has been a guiding principle, helping me understand the twists and turns that have led me to where I am today. Just as a river encounters obstacles and changes course, our lives are filled with unexpected […]
When I first encountered the term “cracked open,” I was intrigued yet perplexed. Having immersed myself in the spiritual and coaching realms for many years, I had never come across this expression. Over time, I discovered that for many, it signifies a profound transformation—be it a deep revelation, intense pain, or an overwhelming experience of […]
I have taken the first Eddy Hopping post and expanded it for the series, so, life, much like navigating a river’s rapids, presents us with challenges that can seem overwhelming. In my journey, I found that applying the concept of “eddy hopping”—a kayaking technique—provided profound insights into overcoming personal obstacles. Read on for info with […]
